It’s hard to believe that it’s been a year since Dale left us. He would be
so happy with the wonderful messages that have been left on this site – not just from
friends and family, but from the people who have passed through and left a lovely
“footprint” on the pages of his Memory Book.
I think he would also like some focus placed on making people aware that Colorectal
Cancer is not just an old person’s disease. When you are 17 years old,
you don’t expect to get Bowel Cancer. Dale used to say he would love to
go visit high schools and tell the kids that they need to be aware of their family
medical history and if they have any symptoms then to Tell Someone and Don't Be
Embarrassed!!! He never got to do it.
Bowel Cancer screening in Australia is great if you are an older person. Most
people don’t think to get their kids checked if there is a family history of it. But
PLEASE – this is a serious disease. I would hate for other people to be
without their children because they didn’t realise that it could happen. And
that’s what it comes down to. You Just Don't Realise That It Can Happen.
While the test is not at all painful to children (unless you are like Mitchell who has
an aversion to vegetables and Red Meat is a no-no during the testing period) – it is
recommended that if you have a family history of Bowel Cancer that children be tested
from around 12 years of age.
The important thing is – Ask Your Doctor.
As a parent, I would rather see my child go through 6 days of fasting from certain
foods once a year, than not having my child tested at all and facing having to be
without them – like we are without Dale.
Australian Bowel Cancer Website
While it has been a difficult year for all of us, I’m sure Dale would be very very
happy that his dad Shane and his very lovely partner Alison will be marrying later
this year. Congratulations to them both. Glenn, Mitch, Missy and
I will be moving to Townsville in early March, to take up jobs in Bigpond Tech
Support. It will be great to be close to my family again as that has made
it a little bit harder for me this year, being away from Jan and Alicia.
We thank you all again for visiting and hope you find either a little comfort or it
makes you smile after reading about some of Dales’ antics or after viewing his photo
stories or Gallery.
Susan
Last Updated 22 February 2008